Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Last Christmas

I only used this title because I have been hearing Wham!'s song of the same title over and over, from Singapore to Hong Kong.

There is a sort of melancholic happiness to this whole Christmas. Don't get me wrong, my travel companions, you have been great. I am just talking about my own love department.

I still don't have the guts to tell that special someone that I like him so. He is so near and yet so far away; so reachable and yet so unattainable. I have to keep reminding myself that he is just a friend by saying it out loud and repeating myself to friends that he is "just a friend" or "as a friend, I...".

I know, my girl friend must think that I am telling such a big fat lie. She must think, "Ya, right! As a friend indeed!"

I can't help it. That is the only way to keep myself in check and not to do or say anything that would jeopardise the situation.

Yes, I may also come across as cowardly to some but I would rather still have a friend than to regret making the wrong move. Therefore, this Christmas, like last Christmas, I am still single. Not sure about the swinging bit, but definitely single. The melancholic bit is (for me I guess) that I am getting used to it.

Bad service

My first personal bad experience with service happened on the second day at H&M, Central.

I was going on my second round of clothes trying and had to leave my basket at the counter, as it was their rule to do so. Fair enough.

As I was walking towards an empty cubicle though, I heard a crash. I turned around just in time to see the H&M staff throwing my basket unwillingly on the floor and walk towards my overspilled clothes to pick them up. She did not look at all apologetic and haphazardly put my clothes back into the basket.

I was not happy at all. I did not appreciate my to-be purchases being thrown about like that. I was most upset at the way she handled my clothes. What if there were sharp edges on the basket and it caused a run in my garments? Whatever it was, it was manners at its worst as she rolled her eyes and walked back to her counter as if nothing happened.

It spoilt my mood and I had half a mind to leave everything and not buy at all, but I eventually did as vanity got the better of me. In fact, it spoilt my mood for the rest of the morning (somewhat). If it were not for Tsui Wah Hong Kong Cafe's lunch of sliced fried beef with rice after that, I would have remained moody for the rest of the day.

Strike @ the airport

Finally! Hong Kong!!

The plane had come to a halt and the sound of seat belts being unbuckled could be heard everywhere.

We were pretty quick, being seasoned travellers. Besides, we did not have anything at the overhead compartment above us. Flight staff were suitably nice as we exited the aircraft.

Our footsteps were brisk as we did not want to waste time. We were hungry, both for food and for shopping.

Customs cleared pretty quickly too! That was really surprising. It was much faster than before. Maybe now, they are Olympic-trained.

Everything was hunky dory until we were claiming our baggage. The baggage for two different flights were scheduled for the same belt. Baggage for the SQ flight from Colombo, USA kept 'spitting' out onto the belt but no sign of CX (Cathay Pacific) baggage.

It was an hour later that we got our baggage and my stomach was growling like a tiger. Still, I had to direct and navigate everyone to the hotel. Not that I am a good navigator. In fact, not a good one at all!! Anyhow, we eventually got to our destination.

I did not think so much about it until the night before we were due to fly back to Singapore. It came to light the cargo handling ground staff were having a strike. The company had announced that they were going to give staff a 20% pay rise but at the same time, that they were going to do away with performance-based bonus (Hmm...where did I hear that before? Maybe in my past life that is of little significance to me now). Staff were not happy and therefore went on strike.

They went on strike from 1 pm to 4 pm on Saturday, 27th Dec. Well, my point of view is, it is silly to go on strike. The longer tourists and travellers take to get out of the airport, the less they will spend. From a macro point of view,it is bad for its economy.

Lost twice...

... And I have not even left for Hong Kong yet!!!!!!!!!!

What did I lose? My jacket. Well, it was not so much lost but forgotten on both occasions.

Of all things, my Dad had asked me where my set of car keys were, just as I was putting on my Doc Marts boots!!! I was so pissed. I mean, talk about 'good' timing!!

Anyhow, I wanted to be a filial daughter and hopped with one-boot-leg (wore one side of the boot only) to get the key for him. Earlier on, I had already brought the jacket out from the room to the dinner room chair.

Off we went to the airport only to get a call from Mum 5 minutes away from the airport. "You forgot your jacket. You can turn back to get it. There is still time. It is up to you."

Shoot! I had wanted to be punctual and now, it just seemed so impossible. Worse still, Dad refused to take road directions from me and insisted that he was right, when he was actually wrong. We ended up making one big round in Tampines.

Then, after checking in, I could not withstand being hungry and we decided to eat at the Killiney Kopi Tiam at the Departure Hall. I put said jacket on the backrest of the chair and ate my toast with 2 almost hard boiled eggs.

We left in the Kopi Tiam in high spirits as we were all excited about the trip (at least I hope so). It was only when I nearly reached our boarding gate did I realise that my had was one item too light.

I walked and ran, ran and walked like I never did before. "Air wear" (Doctor Martens) was good. It was very bouncy, but flat-footed me just could not take the pain on my arch (sole of the foot) afterwards.

This jacket cannot be lost. It went through a whole Korea trip with me. There are many more adventures that I would like to take it on.

When I reached Killiney, there it was, 'sitting' there quietly and peacefully, waiting for its owner. Sigh, what a relief!

Me as Mum

I'm back! Just before I recount what went on in Hong Kong, I must tell you something funny that happened to me tonight.

I was out buying Chinese New Year decorations for my workplace when both me and my colleague realised that we were out of cash. She told me she will go and draw money and I told her I would wait for her at the stall (which is at HDB Hub, Toa Payoh).

The shop owner, either had too much dinner to eat or did not know what to say in front of pretty girls, that he asked me, "Your daughter, ah?"

Hahahahaha!!!!! I wasn't half angry but I just felt very funny by it all. I am actually happy coz now, nobody really treats me like some 14 year-old and treat me for who I am, for real! I giggled and told him that we were colleagues. He was obviously quite embarrassed.

I also wanted to laugh as a similar situation like that happened before between me and my ex housemate. That time, she was the one 'instigated' to be the mum as she is tall while I am small in size and looked real kiddish with all that kiddish nonsense that I wear :P

Anyway, I had a happy ending to a very tiring day.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Lapse

The lapse in writing is largely due to the stress that I was facing both from school and from work. Had to prepare to meet the parents and deal with tests. It was hellish.

It did not help that both my bosses were so stressed out themselves. They would tell me not to be stressed but they have that stressed look on their face. Made it even worse for me. Anyhow, that is over. At least for now.

There is going to be more lapses as I go on my trip as I do not believe in the 'on-the-go' shit. I would rather enjoy myself fully. I still need to pen down my thoughts about Malacca too (if I ever get to pen them down), but I think I would come back with many pics and stories to tell. Wait for meeeeee!!!

Till then!

Panic? Not, or don't.

Preparing for my trip tomorrow. Thought I had packed most of my stuff and yet, there seems to be this nagging thought at the back of my mind that something's not packed.

Also, as I did the bookings for the air tix and hotel. I am really, really afraid that something might go wrong (touch wood, touch wood). The other worry is that I may not be able to get up. Flight's at 0815hrs and check-in will be 2 hours before. Thank goodness I stay real near to the airport. If not, if I ever woke up late, I may...touch wood, touch wood. Hee!

All this pre-trip excitement and jitters. I guess everything will be ok. Just have to take it easy.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Hair affair

Two days to going for my holidays and I have yet to tidy up my hair!!

Was supposed to do so last Sunday but coming back at 5 plus in the morning from Zoukout knocked me out till 2.15pm!!!! My appointment with my hairstylist was at 10.00am!!!!!!

Luckily I managed to arrange for an appointment today. Going off soon! See you with a new hair colour!!

Oh yes! Just in case I do not blog anymore before my trip, Merry Christmas everyone!

Friday, December 19, 2008

Snap happy

Got me-self a new digital camera in preparation for my Hong Kong trip. Did some really, last minute research the night before and under the recommendation of Spacecake, went for either Nikon Coolpix or Canon. I also managed to narrow it down to just one or two models so that I will not get myself too confused.

My final choices were either Nikon Coolpix S560, Canon Ixus 980 IS or the Canon Ixus 870 IS. I finally got the 870 and was really happy that I had made that one of my choices.

Went to get the camera with a friend and she recommended for us to go to John 3:16 at Funan Centre. It is on the 5th floor now, just in case you knew that it was on the 3rd floor before.

As with many Christians, they were warm and friendly, BUT they were not pushy. The camera idiot in me just blurted out Nikon digital camera when the guy asked if he could help me. Immediately, I got two adamant "No, we do not recommend Nikon digital cameras".

It was really funny coz they seem to specialise in sellling Nikons! Of course, they went on to explain that Nikon is best for their SLRs so unless I was going for that pro stuff, I should not even consider (hehe!).

The guy went on to ask me which other brand I had in mind and I told him I would like a Canon. I got a resounding "Ah! That is a good brand to consider" from both guys. More amusement and happiness on my face. Happiness because I had a gut feel that it WOULD be good as I have seen what my father's camera was capable of taking.

Then the guy proceeded to ask me which particular model I was looking for (Woah! Like giving me a test on how I know about my cameras). I quickly whipped out my piece of 'research paper' and rattled off the models. More resounding approval from salesperson.

Anyhow, I finally got the Ixus 870 IS in champagne gold. Love the camera to death and love what it can do. I could not stop talking about the whole buying experience until my friend thought I was infatuated with the guy.

Sigh...I may yearn for male companionship but I am not desperate. I guess it's just that I am in a too much female company, such that the slightest male interaction makes me yak and yak. Or perhaps, I was very taken in by the genuine friendliness of the staff which created a very memorable experience that made me talk about it so much.

Whatever it is, I will just quote Kelly: "If you are happy, just be happy. If you are sad, just be sad. Just be. No one can stop you from feeling."

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Hot, hot, hot!

Oh, forgot to tell you that I am sort of hooked onto Sze Chuan hotpot (steamboat with super red hot chilli and chilli oil). I eat it almost every week and I actually feel a little embarrassed when I go there coz they see my face so often. My colleague told me not to worry; that they could not be happier to see me back there so soon.

Anyhow, brought my cousin there to eat last week and I think she is hooked too! This one is along Beach Road. It is called Chuan Xiang. Of course, we do not eat pure hot pots but ask for the yuan yang (half-half) pot instead. Which means...well, I shall take a picture the next time. Every time, we are so overly enthusiastic about eating that we forget to take any pics.

Stopping now. Coz I must really go to bed.

Good night!

I am still alive

I am still alive. It is just that nowadays, I am so tired that I wish not to do anything else but sleep. Or should I just say that my life is so filled with other activities other than sitting in front of the computer, that I have little time for blogging.

Anyway, I am rushing to choose a digital camera to buy so that I can bring it with me when I go overseas. Dad can keep his own and I shall have exclusive rights to mine.

Spacecake has mentioned Nikon or Canon. Although I was more Canon at first, I now wish to take back my words and say that I might prefer Nikon instead. Reason being that at first, I thought Nikon only had old fashioned, ugly, black coloured ones. Now that I have gone through their site though, I think Coolpix can be quite cool too.

Nevertheless, I have already narrowed down my choice. I will let you know when I have finally bought it and see who comes out the 'winner'!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Missing in action (MIA)

Hi, I know I am have been out of action for quite some time. It could mean two things: One, that I am in a relationship and is so happy that I cannot be bothered to blog or two, I am so down and out trying to sort out my own life that I have no time or even the energy to switch on the computer.

Well, it is actually the latter. I am good now though, so please do not worry. Or if anybody worries at all.

Went to Malacca with some of my colleagues over the long weekend despite the fact that I had a test to do yesterday.

Photos and updates will come soon but I must say I really enjoyed this trip a lot and might go back there again with my cousin. There is lots to discover yet but I can only steal the long weekends to go if I wanted to go with my colleagues as we are one another's covering.

Later then, as I need to stress about Parent-teacher conference this coming weekend. Not my favourite part of work. At all!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Horrible experience at Pepper Plus Wisma

Went shopping with my colleague yesterday. I had wanted to get more of the shorts from Pepper Plus as the last pair I got were a really good fit.

I tried on a black pair and then was going around deciding which colour and which pattern I should go for. There were quite a few and I must say, it was not easy to decide as most of them were nice.

When I have finally decided on the pink number, the salesgirl actually told me, in a tone that only teachers used on their students, "But once you take that one huh, you cannot try anymore ok?"

I told her I understood, paid for the item and went on my way, but I was quite cheesed off to say the least. At first, I had thought it was because of the way that I was dressed and that she might have thought I was a young thing that could not afford to pay for anything (I often get that look and that sort of attitude from salespeople).

It was only at night, just before I went to bed, that I realised that it could probably be because I was speaking Mandarin with a China accent that she might have taken me for someone from there. You see, I take to accents quite easily and hanging around my China Chinese friends have made me speak better. That made me boil even more.

For the first time, I felt discrimination of a different kind in my own home country and it brought me back to the times when I was back in Oz. Of course, in this situation, it was a lot less life threatening (she did not drive past in a car and hurl insults and threaten to kill) but it was definitely a lot more condescending.

I was also mad because if my stupid little brains were fast enough, I would have told her that I have decided not to buy from her anymore. Well, rest assured now I would not. I will go back to the Toa Payoh branch where the staff are much more friendlier and professional.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Penalising singles

Went to my cousin's place recently and we were talking about how this four month maternity leave was going to make everyone else in the office suffer by doing twice as much and yet receiving the same single salary.

On the one hand, we should go let people make babies. Then the kindergartens and childcare centres will all have very good business. No seriously though, it would be good to regenerate a little. Without the young, who is going to look after the old?

On the other hand though, those who make babies should be a little less gloating. Yes, it is your right to take leave, just like it is your right to budge your baby pram in everybody's way, but I think those preggies should learn to be a little more considerate (I am just generalising here. No offence taken ok?).

Anyway, I think it's time for us singles to assert our rights too and not be marginalised by society.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Rush hour

It was crazy, but I had a very bad craving for food at my old work place. Of all days, it had to be the day when I had to reach work this early (7am). Plus, I did not get the car today. Dad had a lunch appointment and told me to leave the car at home for him.

Luckily, time was a slightly flexible factor and so I rushed to get the very cheap and good bee hoon and half flew to catch the MRT.

Never really did like the MRT. If you click on the link to the labels on MRT, you will find not-so-good stuff written about it. This time around, it is the same. I am not going to dwell too much into it as I think it is a bit of a lost cause. All I want to say is, I wish that one day, they would have an all-female cabin.

I managed to reach my work place at 7.30am. It was a tiring but peaceful, quiet sort of day.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Sleep. Now.

Going to have to reach workplace at 7 am tomorrow. It is one of those days where we can go early and leave early and the workplace would be as peaceful as hell except for the noise of the radio blaring away.

Night-Night everyone. Going to be so dead by the end of tomorrow.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

About fulfillment

Today, I almost did not make it to church (again). I barely managed. You see, I am the sort of person, if I were late, then I would rather not go. Same for classes, same for lots of things. I think I just don't want to feel embarrassed with the whole world looking at me.

In today's homily, Father talked about fulfillment and how he recently met this church-goer who had stopped going to church. She came from a well-to-do family and she was earning lots of many and has a happy family, two children and all. One thing she did not feel at this point was that she did not feel fulfilled.

Father reminded us that fulfillment is not always about the big things but also about the small things in life. He was talking about fulfillment in terms of material world and also our own spirituality side of things.

I think I am taking baby steps but I think I am getting there. Though I still need lots and lots of work on the spiritual side.

Just passing by

Haha! I know I am working backwards, but I thought I just had to blog this down.

Went to my favourite Japanese food place again: Mr Sushi Grill Shop at Takashimaya, Basement 2. It is forever packed on Fridays and there are never enough seats as they are all counter seats. Was supposed to meet a friend but that friend was running real late and had asked me to eat first.

As I queued up in the imaginary queue, the waitress took an order from this lady whom, I presumed, went away for awhile and re-appeared, as the waitress explained that she was first. Then she proceeded to ask me for my order.

Now the couple in front of me, who were already hovering around me till I was going dizzy, got very offended. They woman said in Chinese, " We were first here, leh."

Reason given by waitress: "Sorry, because this lady (pointed to lady who re-appeared from nowhere) came first and now, only two customers have finished and left the seats. Since I give this lady first, then there is only one seat left. I can only give it to this other lady (me). Sorry, please wait awhile."

Turns out, the slightly angry couple did not have to wait long as a third person next to the two that were leaving, also left. I didn't have to wait long for my seat either. I was without much expectations that night as I knew this type of situation was going to happen. I am patient when it comes to deliciously good food.

The singly lady and I got our food. My was a salmon teriyaki set. We also got our a la carte order of ika, which is sotong. The portions used to be very good here but the fish on their sets have shrunk and so I ordered more. Besides, I did not eat much for lunch.

The best part was that the couple after the angry couple also got their food and the angry still were waiting for theirs!!! Hahaha! Just not her day. She then complained to the waitress and pointed to all of us and said how come we have all gotten our food and they are still waiting.

I feel I have been made a reluctant guilty party by her pointing at me like that. Plus, I think it was a little rude. I felt a little annoyed at first, but continued to eat anyway, since I did get my food already. Food was yummy and I was hungry!

Then, in a twist of events, this China Chinese lady came along and was trying to ask for the menu from the waitress. I pointed out to her that she could actually see from the light box above. She then told me that it did not look quite the same (she was looking at my food). I had to explain to her that I ordered some extras.

Right after she ordered. This other Japanese guy wanted to order too. He wanted to change the salad on the set to oden (Japanese fishcakes and such) but waitress did not understand. As I tried to play translator, waitress goes into kitchen to get the chef out.

Japanese man asks if she understood English or not. Had to explain to him that she probably understood more Chinese than English. Did not have the heart to tell him that his English was a little difficult for the poor lady to understand. It is not everyday when people would understand when you tell them "salado" (if you could try to imagine the Japanese way of pronunciation).

Then he quickly added that he should learn more Chinese, as it is greatly used everywhere now.

Engaged myself in conversation with the Chinese lady. She seems more cultured than most that I have seen (had quite an unpleasant encounter with local Chinese "Ah Pek" and his China Chinese girlfriend at the same eating place which I did not feel very nice to blog about).

Turns out she was on a business trip and she also asked whether English was taught as a first language here in Singapore and Malaysia. Told her that it definitely was for Singapore but I was not too sure about Malaysia. I also did not want to trouble myself to explain about the old school system whereby you chose either English stream or Chinese stream.

As I have learnt in my many travel experiences, one should never let slip an opportunity to promote one's own country's tourism and boost one's own economy a little. The locals of the countries that I have visited always concentrated on the good stuff and tell of where to eat, where to shop, what to see and so on. Therefore, before I left, I told her that if she was still around tomorrow night (Saturday), shops will be open till 11pm at night.

Here food came as I paid for my bill. We exchanged our good byes and I left on a high note, feeling much better than before.

Movie watching

I have lost touch with watching movies until very recently. Watching movies alone is no fun and it kinda reminded of my ex who would usually fall asleep unless it was X-men or some action packed movie.

Went to watch Quantum of Solace yesterday with my colleague though, despite the fact that friends and other colleagues alike, saying that it might not be so good this time around.

Anyhow, it was the first time I was watching Daniel Craig on the big screen, especially as a double 07 agent. When his first 007 movie came out, I heard so much bad press about him and how his mum leaked out his supposed secret role, that I felt he was the biggest joke in all of 007 Bond history. Then again, those were all just gossip columns and bad press.

Well, after watching Quantum though, I must say, they did choose him for a reason. He does have quite a good body. Or maybe, he HAD to train for it. Anyhow, it did look good, especially since he was so well suited. It was a very good cut.

I find the plot rather draggy though, but it has to be, in order to maintain that Bond flavour. I suppose it was also because it dealt more with Bond's personal feelings.

You want to know the real reason for watching 007? It's coz we didn't want to squeeze with the other kids to watch Madagascar 2. Move it! Hahaha! Will definitely watch that one.

P/s: The other movie that I caught the last weekend was "The Coffin".

Malacca, Malacca

Well, I am really going to Malacca for the next long weekend. Going with two of my colleagues. They have wanted to badly to go to Bangkok but I kinda managed to convince them against it. Dad thinks it is too dangerous to go there now. Me, I just don't want to spend that much as my Christmas trip is also coming up soon.

I foresee lots of these short trips next year as there are many, many long weekends! Even if it is not with my colleagues, it would be with family. :)

Really looking forward to having a taste of Peranakan food in Malacca and sometimes I secretly wish I was a Nonya myself. Many people ask if I am one, simply because I pepper my conversation with the little Malay words that I know.

Sadly I am not, if not, I would have such rich and interesting history to tell, with all the mixed blood uncles and aunties. Nevertheless, I am pretty glad I am living in this part of the world where the Peranakan (or what some may call Straits Chinese) culture is alive and kicking!

Shopping and stress is not good

Man! I have been spending and spending! I was wondering why. Then I realised it was because I was stressed out with my coming assignment that is due next week. I am returning to my old ways and I have to curb myself. Went to buy the M.A.C Christmas lipstick pouch set just because the red pouch really went well with my mobile phone!!!

Luckily, I do use lipsticks and lip gloss and so, nothing is going to waste. Also bought the M.A.C Mineralize Loose powder (funny though coz the box says foundation in English and then slash "loose poudre" in French. So is it a foundation powder or loose powder. Hmmmm....got to check up their website again to find out more.

Also introduced my colleague to M.A.C and Laneige. She was stocking up on her annual make-up supply and turning to me for some help. Well, she was going to buy everything M.A.C when I advised her to look at other brands instead. She is really fair and so I thought it would be better for her to use Laneige. True enough, it was a better fit and so, she happily completed her buys with some Laneige products.

Well, personally, I am making a gradual switch to Laneige products myself, since Paul and Joe is going to discontinue the line of cleanser that I use. The girl was nice enough to give me some samples to use and I think I will be buying some new cleansers soon, but not before I use up my three bottles.

Then again, like how babies cannot just switch milk powders just like that, I might also need to buy the new product once I am down to one last bottle. Then I can gradually introduce the new product to my skin. Nah!!!! Just another excuse to buy more things. Hee! Hee!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Gratification highlight of my career thus far

Last week, this mum came to celebrate the birthday of her 3 year-old girl. She is the prettiest thing that I have ever seen: an Australian-Chinese mix, she has the longest and softest of hair and her eyes are so doleful, that you would just want to hold her close to you and protect her.

Mummy was making some small talk with me when she told me, "A few days back Mia told me that she loved me and after that she told me "but I love Ms O too!""

You have no idea how happy I was. I still cannot believe and have to pinch myself sometimes to see if this was all real. It is. And it is very gratifying. Way pass gratification. It lets me know that my love for the kids do not go un-noticed. Just wondering whether her mummy was a little jealous or not :P

Just today too, one of my kids (girl of course) came from behind and give me a surprise kiss. Cute! Love her lots and love the whole bunch. Even my naughtiest boy actually looks forward to me patting him to sleep every afternoon. That is gratifying to know too. I am usually very stern and strict with him.

Babies, I love all of you! Muack!

Friday, November 7, 2008

What a relief

I did mention some months back (three months to be exact) that my car got 'kissed' by this Sulo rubbish truck? Actually it was more than a kiss. It was quite badly damaged on one side.

It only got repaired this week. Why so long?? Blame it on the insurance company and the rubbish disposal company. When we first lodged the report with the insurance company, they told us to wait for the other party (the rubbish disposal company) to file for report first (they were under the same insurance company as us). They took real long. Too long. They thought that we would just let it go like that. We were not going to.

I think it was the insurance agent's inefficiency that almost caused us our no-claim bonus. By the time about more than a month passed, and only then, the agent advised us to go ahead and do the repairs and claim from our own insurance first and wait to see if the other party would file. We were advised to write in first.

The reply we got was that we were not able to claim even under our own insurance as it has been more than two weeks!!!!

Wow! For a while, I thought the insurance company was trying to bring us for a joy ride and was trying to dodge paying us anything!!!

Dad wrote in again and reasoned with them some more and by then, the other party finally decided to own up. We sent our car in on Monday and got it back as promised. I must say I am super mega impressed with the works from this Mazda-approved workshop. Looks as good as new.

Finally got my baby back in good shape again. At least, I don't have to drive around getting funny stares from other drivers and feeling them avoid me as they feel that I am such a bad driver from what they can see from my car.

Pics from trip

Ok, so I promised some pics. Here they are!

Our room is on the second floor, overlooking the cafe. It was quite funny being able to watch the mega big screen when the soccer matches were going on.

The passageway leading from hotel to the shopping mall and vice versa.

The entrance to the Sunway Pyramid Shopping Mall. The whole place is like an Egyptian pyramid.

Sunway Lagoon Resort. It is next to our hotel and it is a 5-star hotel while ours is a 4-star. No matter coz, it is good enough for me.

It was the Deepavali weekend. There were lots of these displays at the hotels and the shopping malls. I think it is called angoli, but I must check the spelling to be sure.

The chee cheong fun (rolled rice floor sheets) that I have eaten when I went to KL (short for Kuala Lumpur) as a teen. Still tastes the same: simple, good, yummy!

Hee! Just to prove that I have been to Sunway Lagoon. Didn't take any other pics.


How can I miss the opportunity to eat Dunkin Donuts? How can??? So I bought a box for the road.

What I did not set out to buy. Most of those hair rubber bands are for my kids. Going to give them for Christmas. My priced posessions are the pair of shoes from Vincci (VNC in Singapore) and the two bottles of peri-peri sauce from Nando's. Didn't get to eat it though coz Dad and Aunts wanted to eat at Chinatown (Jalan Sultan).

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Sunway, my way

It's been a week or more since my last post. I have been busy being sick, travelling, working and going to school. Not necessarily in that order of course.

Anyway, for the first time, I stepped onto Sunway Lagoon in Kuala Lumpur last Deepavali long weekend. I stayed at the four-star hotel called Pyramid Tower, which was directly linked to a shopping mall. Yippeeeee!!!! Very convenient and very smart of the developer. Even though I did not intend to buy anything at first, I still bought me-self some little, little things. More like, I bought stuff for my kids for Christmas already.

We took a 26-seater coach by Five Star Travel Agency. They are very un-systematic and the service is bad. On the out-going trip, we were wrongly assigned to an 18-seater and was hurled of the coach by a very rude staff who just asked,"Envelope?" and after looking at it, told us, "You are not on this bus. Follow me."

When were were returning, what was supposed to be a 3.00pm departure from the hotel became 3.45pm. The coach was super, super late. What was an estimated arrival in Singapore of 10.00pm (after jams and all that, even though it should be a 5-hr trip), became 11.00pm. There was massive jam.

The KL I saw was very different from what I have seen many years ago. Maybe it is the capital of Malaysia and maybe, there is been massive improvements but the buildings do not seem so old and the people, I must say, are more orderly than us Singaporeans. They really queue up in a neat row when waiting for the MRT and/or LRT.

Part of me also wonders if it is because there is a "Polis" (Malay word for police)that is on duty on the platform. If it is and if it works, then I don't see why we should not have one of them standing at our platforms at all times. The thing is, we do have our "Security Officers" during peak hours on the platforms of our MRT stations, but they do little but stand around looking busy. They seem almost too timid to maintain order or perhaps, they might be too 'by the book' and might say that "I am only in charge of security (ie bomb scares and would-be suicide persons). Maintaining order is not in my job scope". I would not be surprised.

Well, that's it for now. I will post some pictures soon since I now have installed new handphone software into my computer and can use bluetooth to send my pics more quickly. There are also quite a bit more that I would like to say about my trip, so stay tuned.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

More Paul & Joe

I went and did a crazy thing this evening. I went to the Paul & Joe counter at Bugis Junction and bought me-self 3 bottles of the foam cleanser mousse that is going to be out of production soon.

The lady at the counter told me she had nine bottles and I wish I had enough money to buy up all of it, but on second thoughts, it would be quite ridiculous to do so too, as it would take me ages to finish and by then, the product might have expired.

I said my peace to the girl. I told her that I was very surprised that they were going to axe this particular product. I told her that this was the only thing that does not cause redness on my face. I also told her that I have been using this particular cleanser for at least 3 years now. She was really surprised. I also told her that I was so upset the other day that I did not buy anything in the end.

Of course, all this was told in a conversational way and not an accusing way (hopefully she did not find me too long-winded). She was very nice to listen to me too but I doubt she can do much either. She was also quite surprised that I have used to cleanser for so long :P

One thing I did not like though, is that she told me she would give me samples of the new cleanser to use (the new range that the sales lady at Isetan was trying to sell me). I only found out on my way home that it is not exactly the new sample at all. The moisture lotion, I have bought before and it gave me millia seeds. I refuse to use whitening stuff as I feel that it is more harmful to my skin the long run, so the whitening emulsion can go straight to the bin. The only thing that can remotely be used is the light cleansing milk, but anything with the word milk makes me squirm and think millia seeds again. Does not help that they have the world "light" on it.

What I am a little unhappy about is not delivering what she promised (as in, the right sample). Guess I cannot be too picky as they were free stuff.

Well, at least these three bottles are going to last me for at least a year an a half or so. Till then, I shall be more prudent with my usage and then think of what else to use later.

Oh, and thanks to wildswans for your recommendation. I shall kiv and once I have finished my limited supply, will try yours out. Hee!

Monday, October 20, 2008

The end of Paul & Joe for me

I was really upset to find out that they have discontinued the Foaming Facial Cleanser that I have been using for the past two to three years. It was the only thing that was mild enough not to cause redness on my skin and does not give me skin irritation.

I was so upset and angry that I did not even buy that moisture gel that I originally set out to buy. I cannot fathom how they can just decide to cut a certain product line just like that. If I knew this was going to happen, I would have bought a whole box of it the last time I visited their counter.

This sales lady at the Isetan Scotts outlet was also quite unprofessional. She was talking on the phone for quite awhile until I took the products off the shelf and approached her to get the products for me to buy.

After looking for the longest time, she then told me that the cleanser that I want has been discontinued. Then WHY display it there in the first place?????? So angry. Then she told me the new cleanser can moisturise even more etc, etc.

I really did not want to listen anymore coz I really did not need one that was too moisturising. It would just give me millia seeds. Some of their products have already given me that as it is too rich.

Sigh...I am now in search of another product as I feel a little 'betrayed'. I know, very drama, but I just feel like that at the moment. Until I find the next best product, woe is my face!!!!

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Concert tonight

SANDY LAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Going for her concert tonight! Bought the tix like two to three months back I had to remind myself to keep it in the bag that I carry and once in awhile, check that it was really there! Haha!

If I manage to time myself efficiently, I would be taking one straight bus to the Indoor Stadium. Sigh...got to make sure that the shoes that I wear are comfortable. Can't be wearing stilettos.

Well, that does not mean that I cannot dress up! Hee... .Can't wait!

"Welcome to where time stands still..."

Hahahaha....Those were the lyrics and the start to Metallica's song, Sanitarium and yes, I was a fan and yes, I still remember those lines. I would like to think that I expose myself to a wide range of music and heavy metal was, and still is one of them.

It all started when I went to pre-university. I was hanging out with this group of girls and one of them had a nickname called Morbid Angel. She was this church-going, drum playing girl who put on black lipstick and nail polish at the slightest chance she could, despite the fact that she had a pretty strict dad (sorry uncle) who kept remembering my name as "Shandy" (like the beer with sprite drink. Hahaha!).

She introduced me to Guns N' Roses, Def Leppard, Sepultura, Skid Row (I remember you) and of course, there was Metallica. The black album was all the craze and almost everyday without fail, we would be singing "Exit light, enter night, take my hand, off to never- never land" during recess.

Why all this reminiscence? I was at HMV two days ago and I saw Metallica's new album out on the shelves. It was called Death Magnetic. It was on one of the tester CD stations and I took an 'earshot' at it. Wow!!! Completely blew me away with all this familiar 'duhn...duhta,duhta...' sound. It is the sort of sound that I like. The sounds being produced by bass guitars and played by Lars Ulrich. It's something very...Metallica.

I was really tempted to buy the album already except that I find their intro very long and I am not sure, at this point of time, whether I can still take to this type of head-banging for more than 10 minutes. Got me-self a Robin Thicke instead, among some others. Will test-listen to it a few more times before deciding whether to get it or not.

For now, I will just "sleep with one eye open..." (lyrics from Enter Sandman). Hahahahaha....!

Just a little note: I am no music expert and I do not bother myself too much with musical terminology. Therefore, there might be certain terms that may not be accurately described. Whatever it is, this is a personal posting so I really do not care much for terminology. Ha!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Silly me :(

Just went to double check on the date of the Hit Awards and it is the Deepavali weekend that I would not be around. Silly, silly, silly.

Nevertheless, I can still let my colleague know the price and see if she wants to go with someone else.

One down, three more to go.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Concerts, musicals, awards and such

Gosh!!! There are so many performances coming to town that I really do not know which one to go to. Worse of all is that I cannot go for all of them!

First of all, Rihanna is coming to town!! Not sure if any of my friends would be that interested to want to go and see her but I am prepared to go alone. The price is a little steep though. I am also waiting a little longer before purchasing the tix. I do not want them to pull a Robbie Williams on me. You see, he was supposed to come and we bought tix and all only to hear that he was cancelling his tour to this part of the world. There were refunds and all that but it was quite a big disappointment.

Then, another friend wants to see Kylie. Her, I am ok. Won't die if I don't see her concert. Besides, she cancelled before too! That was only coz she found out she had breast cancer just then.

To tell you the truth, the last time I saw one of these pop/ contemporary Western singers come, was when New Kids on the Block came to Town. Hahahahaha!!!! Don't laugh alright? They just came out with their comeback album and my childhood schoolmate, who now lives in the States, just went for their concert! I can't believe that after all these years, she is still so into them.

Then there is the musical, Cinderella, which is performed by Lea Salonga and a whole stellar cast from Broadway. That, I would very much like to watch too.

There is also the Singapore Hit Awards which my colleague is very interested in going.

Sigh...decisions, decisions. I would give Rihanna 90% affirmity of going and Cinderella 80%. As for Hit Awards, I will see what my colleague says tomorrow.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

From Grey's Anatomy

"The expected is what keeps us standing still, while the unexpected brings on changes in our lives." - Meredith Grey

An alternative solution

In another extravagant world, where I as an extravagant person, I prided myself in using what was what good and what was hip. I was still trying to be quite extravagant but then I thought, maybe, I should use an alternative that could be easily gotten.

You see, I was very set on using Philosophy stuff, especially the 3-in-1 shower gel. It acts as a shampoo, conditioner and shower gel. It was the only thing, until a week back, that does not make my skin itch from dryness or have an overpowering perfume smell that would be almost fatal to my sensitive nose.

I was even thinking that I can make use of this time of good exchange rate of US currency to order my 'loot' online.

Well, don't need to now. I just tried Cetaphil and it works fine on my skin. I can get it at the local pharmacy or Watson's and at a fraction of what I paid for Philosophy bought off the rack. Besides, if I really suffer from a Philosophy withdrawal syndrome, I could also try to get some from Hong Kong. I last bought it at Wing On Plus Department Store. Hopefully it is still there.

For now though, Cetaphil will suffice.

Me, the sick

I am sick at home again. This nose of mine is very irritating. I wish someone would invent some kind of home vacuum for the nose whereby one could stick it up the nostrils (sorry to be so crude) and suck out all that mucus.

They are stuck in my ears and it is irritating as I feel like digging them out but can't. Only nose drips and medication can do the job.

Well, before I say night-night to the rest of the day and rest, I managed to do some research over the Internet on Hong Kong and Shenzhen again. Now I am just wondering whether to get a pre-paid phone card while I am there as we may be meeting up with some friends based there and may need to use the phone quite regularly. Hmm.....party, party!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

YES! Hong Kong, here I come!!!!

I almost thought that it was not going to happen but it did. I managed to pluck up enough courage to ask for leave towards the end of the year and it was approved! Before, I was not three months into employment yet, and was afraid that it would not get approved.

Hee! Hee! Now that it has, I rushed to book air tickets and hotel. I met with many...challenges. Firstly, my first choice hotel, Kimberley Hotel was charging way too much at $123 per person per night. Plus, they might be fully booked up too. Managed to find a cheaper choice: Ramada Hotel Kowloon. This was also at Tsim Sha Tsui (TST) area, but Octopus.com could not give me an instant confirmation as they were just making the reservation on my behalf. They still had to wait for the hotel to get back to them before confirming with me again. It would be another 48 hours of anxiety.

Then one of my friends, who did not reply immediately, decided the next day to go with us (there were already two of us). The air ticket part was easy. Either book the same airline but sit separately or book a different airline altogether and then meet at the airport. Hee! I forgot my friend has never been to Hong Kong, while I...have been going there almost every year since...I can remember.

The problem was in the hotel booking as I only booked a room for two and with the pending confirmation, I was worried sick (that is just me). Then I received this email saying that my booking at Ramada Hotel was not successful. They suggested Empire Kowloon Hotel.

I have stayed at this hotel before and it is a really beautiful boutique hotel, but I also happen to know that it was not cheap. Dad, who has become online hotel booking expert, told me to go to agoda.com. Hee! Hee! Managed to book another hotel from there and it was an instant confirmation.

The other little issue left is that, the last friend's leave is still pending approval. Keeping fingers crossed. If leave is approved, then I will proceed to amend the hotel booking.

Whatever it is, I am rearing to go and have already started planning where to go! Definitely going over to Shenzhen to get me-self more cheap but good shoes!!!!! Plus, it's the season for boots too!!

My weekend

What can I say? I live for weekends. I played mahjong at my aunt' place again. There was good food for everyone, including the family dog Browny.

Passed by pet shop two days back and remembered to buy him something. I was his favourite person for the moment as he realised that I was the one with the good stuff. Usually, he would look at us longingly as we eat and yet not get any. This time around, he is one happy dog!

Today, had a family day, sort of. Went to have breakfast at Whompoa Market and then went to church. Dad decided to go to the library while waiting for me. By the time I we were done, it was time to eat again. Dad was still mulling over what to eat when I suggested we go to Hup Seng Duck Rice at Sin Ming. YUM!!!!!

I was in duck heaven when we managed to have braised duck and the duck soup with pickled vegetables (or Itek Tim if you are a Peranakan/Straits Chinese). This place is super popular and if you go any later than 1.30pm, be ready to eat the air instead.

Even at 1pm, my Dad was worried that the braised duck would have finished. I was sent to see whether there were still any available while my Dad waited in the car. There was no queue. I quickly ordered before calling my Dad on his cell to park his car. That was how 'exciting' the situation was.

After I have ordered, a long queue formed again and by the time we finished eating (which was about half an hour or so) there were no more braised ducks hanging on the rack anymore. We counted ourselves lucky. *grin*

After eating at two of our favorite haunts (amongst others) we went home.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

The other side of the road

I usually rush to school after work and somehow, on school days, there would be something that would happen around 5.30pm that would not allow me to leave on time.

This time, it was like I described, but nonetheless, I have managed to see a Subway while taking a bus to Orchard this morning (switch buses halfway. Isn't that what the government wants us to believe? The one who do more transfers of public transport will save the most). I decided to give it a try and find that place this evening.

I was really worried that I would not manage to find the place, walk there and back to school on time, but I did. I also managed to get a glimpse of the museum and buildings on the other side of the road as I walked from SMU (Singapore Management University, where the Subway was situated) to my school. I am usually looking from the museum side across to SMU instead.

It was definitely a different view and for that short moment, I feel that I should look at things from different angles and not just from one point.

Hectic study days.

Finally got my text book on Monday (6th Oct). The last Monday that I tried to get it, I was too late. It was sold out.

Now, with that 'Bible' in early childhood, I can relax and rely on it. I am the sort who feels more secure to buy what the teacher recommends.

Topics are getting heavier as we talk about cognitive and physical stuff, but thanks to very nice classmates who are very supportive, we are surviving.

I found that many classmates sitting near me are actually either catholics or are teaching in Catholic kindergartens. It brings me to one of my obscure thoughts to teach in one such kindergarten. Anyway, it is one step at a time for now. I will work for one year at my present place first and then decide where to move on from there.

Today, I brought Milo packets for them as the school only provides coffee and tea packets. I am so afraid of insomnia now, I have sworn off coffee during weekdays.

The other funny thing is that I find one of the senior people in my previous organisation is also taking up the same course with another earlier batch of intakes. She is in-charge of programmes and at first, when I saw her at the car park, I thought she was going to guest lecture. After seeing her on several occasions though, I felt she might also be a student her and asked one of my friends, who was with the other class. She told me that she and her husband are both taking the same course.

Right there and then, I could hear the little voice in my head singing," It's a small world after all...".

Well, now that I have settled my leave for December, I am sooooo going to work very hard for my assignments.

Monday, October 6, 2008

Playing cheat

With less numbers of days of leave, I find that I have to be very creative when going for holidays. It is called maximising. Actually, people have been doing this for ages, even if they on a leave scheme that gives them 28 days. Ha! Ha!

With less budget to work with as well, I also have to be creative in where I want to go. I used to scoff at the thought of going to Malaysia, but now, I think it will be one of my first choice as, in terms of proximity, it is the nearest and it does not burn a big hole in my pocket. Went down to People's Park to book for coach and accommodation to Sunway Lagoon for the next long weekend holiday.

Just to let you in on a secret, this is my first time going to Sunway Lagoon and I have never been to the Petronas Twin Towers. Well there you are, it's two of my secrets revealed (and not just one).

Going with my Dad and two aunts. My mum? She does not like to travel, especially if she had to take a coach. She would rather stay at home to watch Discovery Travel&Living. That would already be her travelling and tour.

Sunday, October 5, 2008

His messages, His will

After good food and some shopping exercise, I went for evening mass at the Cathedral of the Good Shepherd (Saturday evening mass).

I was quite urgent and had to go to the ladies first as service was going to be an hour long. I passed by a nun selling something. At that point of time, I was wondering what they were selling now and how was I going to reject if it was something that I did not need.

Turns out that the Sister was selling 2009 calendar. They were celebrating the bimillenium year of St Paul. I remembered some time last year, I also bought a calendar from the Franciscan brothers as they were celebrating the year of St Francis of Assisi.

I found the whole buying calendar experience very short but...strange (for the lack of a better word). First of all, the Sister told me that their shop is based at the Church of Risen Christ, the church I am frequenting now. I had tried to look for the bookshop the last time I went to church, but did not manage to.

Sister managed to confirm that the bookshop I was looking for was the correct location. She also told me that other than Monday and Thursdays, they are always open.

Then, as if she knew or maybe she could see it written on my face or there might be some sign (or maybe they always ask any girl or lady that comes along), she asked me if I wanted to find out about religious life and about vocations.

At that point of time, my mind just went blank and I could only hear a humming sound in my ear and I really want to cry out and ask her so many questions. Anyway, she said something that eased my mind a little. She said, "Just be open to what God has to say to you".

I was still all confused when God gave me another task to do. The stranger beside me had asked me what is going on just before receiving the body of Christ (Holy communion). I told her that if she was not baptised, that she does not need to receive the body of Christ. She can just pray at her seat.

I thanked God for letting me help a stranger and thought that was that, but we continued chatting as walked out of church. Turns out she is from Vietnam and she is studying here and comes to this church quite regularly. She wanted to know more about God and about the Catholic Church.

I told her about RCIA and then, for the lack of ability to explain, I told her I will email her the links to such information instead.

Amid all this confusion, I think He wants me to go deeper into my faith and have an even better understanding of it first before making my next move.

Anyway, I think God is ever-present in my life and shows His presence in the most unexpected ways. He also has the most interesting way of conveying His messages. Sometimes, I am very confused and my mind goes berserk trying to 'decode' what He is trying to tell me. In the end, I don't try at all.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Shiok Shokudo!

Met up with some Primary school girlfriends today. We went to eat at Shokudo, Raffles City. I had wanted to check out what the hype was all about as there was always a long queue on Fridays.

It is also touted to be the Japanese version of Marche, where one just uses a card to 'buy' stuff and only pay when we exit the restaurant. I find that there were dishes like pasta and rosti that should not have been there. They are quite un-original and unnecessary.

There were stuff that were very Japanese and I enjoye those very much. I especially liked the yakitori and sashimi. There is something that I wanted to try but did not get to, and that is the oden. It is actually, as they have stated on heir display dish, Japanese yong tau foo. I have always seen people eat oden at Mr Sushi, but never did have the courage to order it. Now I know where else I can go to, to eat oden.

As for the yakitori, they have quite a variety for you to choose from and there was something that I ate for the first time and found it very delicious! That was the quail eggs wrapped with bacon. Yummy!

There is also mochi which I did not try, but because I prefer savoury things, I have put it off till some other time. Coffee was not bad and acording to one of my girlfriends, the hot chocolate is actually not bad too!

We sat there for like a good two to three hours; from full house till not too many people at all. The only complaint is that they kept repeating the same CD (music) over and over again. We eventually left because of that. No, nt really. It was getting cold and we were all very full and wanted to do some 'excercise'.

It was a very pleasant afternoon with one of them asking us what is the meaning of life to us. Or rather, what drives us to wake up every morning. This led to a whole series of chats about work, children and lots of other stuff.

NEW PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry. Got a little too excited. I wanted to wait till December and change to the other phone operator with the green theme, but I guess I could not resist the phone calling out my name and saying,"Take me, please take me home. I am yours!"

Ha, ha, ha!!!

Got the Sony Ericsson W910i. I think, my choice is non of the above (from my wish list). The reason why I did not want that phon at that time was due to the fact that the camera only had 2.0 megapixels while my present phone had 3.2 megapixels.

Well, as the salesperson told me, it is not such a great difference, the megapixels, unless we are talking about 3.2 megapixels versus 5.0 megapixels. I agree.

As OLKGAL once said to me, a handphone should be a handphone. Why pay so much for camera functions when you know that it can never function as well as a real camera (well, something like that). I agree with her on that too.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

KPE

Went to my grand aunt's funeral wake for the second night in a row. Was a little excited as I was going to travel on the new KPE tunnel from the other direction for the first time (usually, I go towards city and head off to PIE, when the tunnel was not fully in operation).

Going towards Punggol was quite smooth-sailing. There were cars (as it was about 8 plus at night) but it was not traffic-jammy sort of irritating situation. The best part was I was going home from Punggol. At first, there were only 2 cars: one car in front of me and...my car!!! It was so empty and the feeling of almost having the whole road to yourself, was wonderful!

Driving on a little, after passing Airport road exit, there were a few more cars that joined us: two to be exact. Not bad at all. Of course, it was eleven plus at night and the traffic on the road would have been sparse. This being a new tunnel at that, just made it even more so.

Love the KPE for now. Just wondering when it will become overcrowded again, just like all the other major expressways.

What a lazy day kind of day, except...

Was supposed to go to Ubin with my colleagues today, but the weather wasn't too promising. It was threatening to rain. We all decided to sleep in.

Watched some TV, did some blogging (as you can see from my previous postings) and planned to go watch a movie on my own. Then I learnt that one of my grand aunts have passed away. This saddened me quite a bit as she was my favourite grand aunt. She was always laughing loudly (like me) during any sort of family gatherings, which is usually at birthday and wedding dinners. Her older sister was the more sarcastic one and never fails to tell you off.

Anyway, still went to watch Mama Mia! but with Dad and Mum instead. Quite surprised that Dad would want to watch it as he is quite picky about movies. The are certain genres that he just would not watch. I guess Meryl Streep got him to go and watch it.

We went to Downtown East, which was not too bad at all, except Mum did not like the noise or crowd one bit. It gave her a splitting headache. I was just having fun, eating Superdog hotdog and enjoying the movie. I was tapping my toes the beat of the music most of the time.

Said part came when we went for the wake. Although I know that she has been called home to be with the Lord, I just feel really sad still. I just went to visit her on September 1st when I had a Teacher's Day holiday. Little did I know that it will be my last.

I guess this is my wake up call to visit my own granny more often, as always find some kind of excuse not to. Maybe subconsciously, I do not want to see them get old, but I do know that time is running out and I should not delay any longer.

Samgaetang


Had dinner with Dad at Ju Shin Jung last night. This is at Joo Chiat.It was under the heavy recommendation of his Korean student who is learning Chinese under him. We went for the Korean Ginseng Chicken (samgaetang) and it was quite delicious.

However, I find the dishes a little overpriced. A korean pancake is going for $20. Even if it had lots of kimchi and seafood, I don't think I will pay that much for flour-y stuff like that. I would still prefer Manna any time. The food variety is more to my liking. I promised Dad I would bring him to Manna one day :)

Anyway, forgot to mention how embarrassed we were when we first walked into a Korean restuarant, thinking that was it! We did not realise that the name of the restuarant was different and we had to walk out again, realising it is more of a Korean barbecue place rather than Ju Shin Jung, the one specliasing in Ginseng Chicken Soup :)

Nostalgia




Well, I did say that I went to stay over at my cousin's place from 20th night till 21st Sept. I found lots of nostalgic treasures that were still in good working condition. Rather than waiting for these treasures to disappear from the earth forever, I took pics of it instead! Can you see the brand of the fan?

Satisfying dinner

Went to have dinner and stayed over with my cousin on 20th September. We (my aunt, my cousin and I) went to have dinner at the Marriott. Was either thinking of the Crossroads cafe (where I used to work as a captain) or the poolside cafe. We ended up at the Pool Grill as it was full house at the Crossroads Cafe and the hostess/maitre d'hotel could not guarantee us a table even though we had to wait for 15 minutes.

Here are the pics of what we ate:

I had a veal scallopini.

My cousin had the blue barramundi (hope I got this one right).

My aunt had the salmon.

The most rewarding bit was the coffee though. If you are thinking of spending little at a quiet environment, having a cup of coffee there would be ideal. They use Illy coffee beans (at least their cups say so). It would also be a good place if you just wanted to drink some wine while looking at the skyline of Orchard Road.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Of eggs and webbed limbs

Went for classes today and we had to learn about pre-natal and pregnancy. We even watched a video on how the sperms swim up towards the uterus and we saw some sperms that were either two-headed or two-tailed. Those were called rejects.

In that video, it is also said that the well-being of a child starts right from the moment when the sperm swims up towards our uterus. Therefore, we women have the responsibility to keep our wombs in tip-top condition even before we decide to have a baby. That is, if one ever wants one.

It was also interesting for me to refresh that the woman's eggs are already there since birth and it decreases as we age. How? You go use logic to figure out. Men on the other hand, produce sperms from the time of puberty till the day that they die.

Well, sorry to gross any of you out, but I felt I had to note down these facts that I find...worth noting.

Oh! Another thing is, we were all first created with webbed hands and feet. Only thing the cells die and somehow, fingers are then formed. The reason why some people have six fingers? Is that the cells did not stop growing until it was a little too late.

OK, enough said. Don't want to bore anyone anymore.

Sunday, September 28, 2008

Rediscovering Toa Payoh

Had a very fruitful day today. Even though I only touched my bed at 3 plus in the morning, I managed to meet my colleague to have a field day at Toa Payoh!!!

I have long heard how the heartland shopping experience there is great but I did not know that it was so fantastic! Hahahaha!!! I managed to find a top which was originally $7, but after discount, it was only $4.90!!! I managed to get a set of top and bottom fo less than $10!!

Actually, I did not only get a top and bottom today. I got lots of clothes but for the same amount I used to pay for, perhaps, two items, I got seven!!! I also allowed myself to indulge in one pair of shoe for slightly less than $30. Let us see how long the shoes will last. It is the sort I like" wooden base with studs on the side. A bit like clogs.

Of course, most of the clothes are considered casual to smart casual wear, but for me now, I only need to wear those. If I were to wear long sleeves shirts and such, I would really smell funky :P

We went to the library after that to surf the Net. It was the first time I tried Wireless@SG. It was as expected, not so good. Kept losing connection. Nevertheless, I still managed to do what I wanted to do.

To end my day, I attended the evening mass at Risen Christ. I think I have found the church with the right feel. Perhaps it is the choir, or perhaps it is the congregation itself, but I just have the right feel when I attend mass there.

What is the right feel, you might ask. Well, I don't really know how to explain. I can just tell you that I am a person who goes with gut feel and aura a lot. There are times when I have stepped into a room or have just met someone and have decided there and then that I did not like the place and/or person. Same with churches. Or perhaps, it is because Father John Sim, my spiritual director during my RCIA days, is now the parish priest there.

Anyway, I foresee myself to be going to Toa Payoh more often, and it is not solely for religious purposes. Hee, hee!

Of mahjong and chicken wings

Woah! Last night, lost to my Dad in mahjong. Was very pissed with myself as it took me great pains to build the 'cards' but in the end, still did not win. Just not my day.

Anyway, my aunt made super delicious chicken wings in black sauce. Now, nowadays, I would not normally eat anything related to chicken, especially chicken wings. I have to eat it almost everyday as the cook is mainly given that to cook. Of course, I do get to eat a balanced meal of one meat and 2 veg, but really, I would try to avoid chicken wings at all cost.

However, my aunt's chicken wings were another thing. It has got XO!! Mind you, it is not XO sauce. It's the real thing. Haha!! It was cooked the night before and the chicken wings were steeped in gravy flavour. The meat was tender and my aunt took the pains to chop up the wing part from the drumette part. It was so yummy-licious that I took an extra bowl of rice with just the gravy alone. Mmm....... .

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Passing thought?

Having more and more strange thoughts by the day. In fact, from last night, after entering church, I have had the strongest feeling that God wants me to be a nun. It is real scary as the calling seems to become clearer and clearer.

The thing is, I don't think I am ready to become one. I am not ready to give up mahjong and shopping, and lots more other stuff. I am going to pray some more and ask God for guidance. I want to make sure that this is not some random thought and fancy that came to mind overnight.

However, it is hard to ignore that I have been having such passing thoughts for the past year and the signs seems to be getting stronger and stronger.

No matter. Shall just let it rest for now. After all, it is mahjong day today!

Friday, September 26, 2008

When the going gets tough

It has been a horrible, tearful day. Must be due to the time of the month coming soon. Hearing one of Natasha Bedingfield's songs kind of made me look on the bright side of things though.

After all, there are two sides to a coin and one can choose to mull over things or to look on the bright side and just smile.

I went to pick up my wicker basket today. Was at Novena Square first and had to pass by the St Alphonsus Church (or what is popularly called the Novena Church) and although I told myself that I was not going to delay any further and get to my destination (to pick up my basket). Sub-consciously though, I think I did want to go in.

My feet brought me to the church proper (as I could not find the grotto, silly me) Nevertheless, I just prayed and prayed my worries and troubles away. It was very peaceful. There were some others who were praying or sitting there, having some adoration time.

After my own private time with God, I went on my way. The basket was big. Much bigger than it looked in the picture. Chatted with my friend for a while (or a little too long while) and finally, I waited for my bus to come.

One funny thing happened. This small boy was waiting for the bus at the bus stop with his mum and maid but he was playing somewhere else before. When he was called for and came towards his mum, he starting trying to peep into the basket, thinking there is an animal in there!! Cute!

He was not really convinced that there wasn't anything in there and took several peeks more. That perked me up a little.

Well, when the going gets tough, there is mp3 music and then, there is God.

Friday, September 19, 2008

On why I do not give away my blog addy freely

As you can see, I am pretty much a young blogger. The Internet, was for me, something of a taboo, right until recently and I tell you, there are still things that I would not do on the Internet, such as Internet banking. Will try it soon but with caution.

A lot friends are surprised that I actually blog. I know my cousin was. Hee, hee! In fact, I still am surprised myself. Sometimes. I am actually a rather shy person at heart and this thing about telling the whole world what I am doing, is a little too much for me at a certain point of time in my life.

Therefore, even if my friends exclaim about me having a blog, I am not all ready to provide them with my blog URL. Reason is, I don't want to seem too eager and come across as erm, desperate (for the lack of the right word to use).

I mean, why would they want to read my blog anyway? I would only give them my URL when they ask me for it. In this way, I know that they are genuinely interested in reading it. Well, come to think, they might be thinking the same. They might think why should I, the author, be sharing with them about my blog. They may be waiting for ME to give them the green light instead.

Seriously though, I would never ask "Do you want to read my blog?" That is so...tacky, and desperate.

The other reason is of course, that I may have written some things about them that I do not expect them to read about. It is true that there are hundreds of postings, but who's to say that they would not go and read each and every one of them?

Anyway, thanks for reading about my not-so-important life. Have a good weekend!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

My new friends now


I used to think that Tiger balm and Axe oil are for old folkies. Never did I imagine myself loving it to the point of addiction one day.

It all started when my GP told me to go buy a bottle of Axe oil to put into some hot water to inhale. It was a cheap an effective way to clear the air passages and blocked sinuses. While I was at the Chinese medical hall, I figured that I might as well get the Tiger balm as well.

Now, I wish I coul take it out as and when to rub it on my nose or chest but I do know that some people are irked by the smell and being the socially conscious me, I won't be doing that any time soon..

The other 'old fashioned' medication was the Nin Jiom. They used to only have it in the thick goowy,liquid format. When it first came out with the herbal candy, I was soooo skeptical about it. I thought it was some 'scam' sweet that they were trying to roll out and cover the different markets. Good marketing strategy but some useless superficial product. Or so I thought.

I was coughing real badly during class on Wednesday and one of my classmates passed me a sweet. The cough stopped completely. It did come back eventually but that is only because my cough is no ordinary cough (read previous posting). To me, it was already VERY effective!!

More on Natasha

Forgot to say that it is strange and yet coincidental that Natasha Bedingfield will be going on tour in the US with none other than, New Kids on the Block (NKOTB). Hahahahaha!!!!

They were my favouritest boy band during my time. NKOTB, Take That, EMF and a little more. Hmm....



Oh! By the way, I feel that she looks like a bigger version of Hilary Duff, whom I happen to like, due to her positive image.

Natasha Bedingfield

Quite a mouthful, I would say, for a star/singer. But this name has stuck with me. More like her voice has stuck with me.

I first saw her MV on MTV and I was thinking "who in the right mind would write a song that has lyrics so tacky that it made me hair stand?"

It was the song I want to have your babies. Now on hindsight, I think she did a great job for this as it is not an easy phrase to write into a song. What really caught my attention was the song Soulmate. It was like writing about how I was (and perhaps, is) feeling and when I fund out the name of the singer and put one and one together, I almost wanted to faint. How could I go out there and buy an album whereby I totally loved one song but totally had goosebumps when listening to another??

I eventually bought it anyway and did not look back. I find that her voice has this uniqueness about it. A little edgy but not too edgy like Duffy or Amy Winehouse and her lyrics have got meaning. Meanings that I like.

Just bought her US-released album, Pocketful of Sunshine a few days back. No regrets even though half of it were songs were from the previous album that I had (called N.B.)

Well, here is the URL for her MV on Soulmate (since the embedding was disabled):http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEzbkGj7EaQ

p/s: Sorry, please cut and paste as either, there seems to be something wrong with the function at Blogger or my computer is too security-tight. Link doesn't seem o appear when I publish.

A visit to the doctor. Finally.

Woah! Never felt so impatient in my life. Usually, when I go to my GP, I would be very patient, knowing that she painstakingly explains to her patients, detail by detail. Maybe it's because I met with boo-boo this morning and so I was rather frustrated at having to wait much longer.

The first patient took a good half an hour before she emerged from the room. The second patient, a man, was already very impatient while waiting. He was pacing back and forth, flipping through magazines without really reading them and fiddling with his handphone, trying to look busy. Maybe HE made me irritated.

He took another half an hour or so. For an impatient man, that was certainly a long time! It was as if he was trying to outdo the previous patient, trying to make sure he gets his money's worth from by stretching his consultation time.

I was cheesed off. I was sick (still am) with my sinuses all blocked up and this intermittent itchy throat that threatens to itch and cough at the most unlikely of times, making me real embarrassed.

Well, by the time got to see the doc, she told me that I have caught the micro plasma virus, the virus that the other doc behind my house was warning me about. He had told me that the kids are having it but he did not diagnose me as a carrier??!

My doc told me if I delayed treatment some more, I might have gotten pneumonia. Scary. Plus, when I told her I was prescribed oral steroids of sorts (not the first time since I have bronchitis and asthma history), she told me that it is less harmful inhale than to have oral steroids.

Personally, I think both are no good but I guess it is a case of 'no choice'. No wonder I have been getting palpitations as the oral steroids gives me that. It was terrible. I was walking uphill and felt like I could not breathe properly and was going to die!! That was the other thing that the other doc behind my house did not tell me. It was not the first time I was taking that particular medicine, but I think it's a doc's duty to repeat every time they prescribe.

I am back on the inhaler and no, it is not Ventolin. It is Symbicort and it is NOT cheap. Burnt a big hole in me pocket.

Anyhow, doc' orders are to stay at home to rest for the rest of the week and if I do not recover by next week (still feeling out of breath) then I have to go back to her again. This time, I better either see the time properly or call first to ask.

Two pictures of Chinatown during the Mid Autumn Festival


These pics were taken on the day of the lighting up ceremony at Chinatown. The whole road was closed for rehearsals as there was going to be performances and the lighting ceremony. I was trying to take the decorations on the bridge but obviously, it was too far. Will edit and post another that is clearer.

Another decoration in the middle of the road.

What time?

I am now stuck at home, waiting to go see my GP (general practitioner). You see, unlike most GPs, my doc has weird timings. When her husband, the paediatrician is around, she is usually not, unless it was a Monday or Friday morning.

She is usually only around in the afternoons and the annoying thing is that the clinic is closed on weekends. She is pro-family and having their own business means that they can manage their time, the way they want it.

I got this all wrong and last Friday, I almost went and see her in the afternoon. I would have been disappointed then. Today, I thought I had gotten it right and in my state of blur-ness from all that antihistamine, I went down straight. Note that she is far from my house; Hougang to be exact, but I still prefer to go to her as I have been seeing her for goodness knows how long. I think it was since my Secondary school days.

Well, as you may have already guessed, I was disappointed and now have to wait till after two to go and see her again, wasting petrol and time. The only consolation is that I got to eat all my breakfast, which I later offered to the porcelain God, if you know what I mean. This is not good. I feel terrible. I want to be well again so that I can do normal stuff and not go about feeling all blur and weak.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

A visit to the doctor's. Finally.

Woah! Never felt so impatient in my life. Usually, when I go to my GP, I would be very patient, knowing that she painstakingly explains to her patients, detail by detail. Maybe it's because I met with boo-boo this morning and so I was rather frustrated at having to wait much longer.

The first patient took a good half an hour before she emerged from the room. The second patient, a man, was already very impatient while waiting. He was pacing back and forth, flipping through magazines without really reading them and fiddling with his handphone, trying to look busy. Maybe HE made me irritated.

He took another half an hour or so. For an impatient man, that was certainly a long time! It was as if he was trying to outdo the previous patient, trying to make sure he gets his money's worth from by stretching his consultation time.

I was murved. I was sick (still am) with my sinuses all blocked up and this intermittent itchy throat that threatens to itch and cough at the most unlikely of times, making me real embarrassed.

Well, by the time got to see the doc, she told me that I have caught the microplasma virus, the virus that the other doc behind my house was warning me about. He had told me that the kids are having it but he did not diagnose me as a carrier??!

My doc told me if I delayed treatment some more, I might have gotten pneumonia. Scary. Plus, when I told her I was prescribed oral steroids of sorts (not the first time since I have bronchitis and asthma history), she told me that it is less harmful inhale than to have oral steroids.

Personally, I think both are no good but I guess it is a case of 'no choice'. No wonder I have been getting palpitations as the oral steroids gives me that. It was terrible. I was walking uphill and felt like I could not breathe properly and was going to die!! That was the other thing that the other doc behind my house did not tell me. It was not the first time I was taking that particular medicine, but I think it's a doc's duty to repeat every time they prescribe.

I am back on the inhaler and no, it is not ventolin. It is Symbicort and it is NOT cheap. Burnt a big hole in me pocket.

Anyhow, doc' orders are to stay at home to rest for the rest of the week and if I do not recover by next week (still feeling out of breath) then I have to go back to her again. This time, I better either see the time properly or call first to ask.

What a mess!

Want to see how messy I got preparing myself for the wedding dinner? Check out this picture:



Plus, I used up five eyelid stickers for my right eye and I still didn't really get it right!!! These stickers are supposed to let single eyelid people like us look like we have natural double eyelids. It does look natural on my left eye though. I just think it has got something to do with the condition of my eye that day.

Nevertheless, a good haircut, with beautiful dress, matching shoes and bag, makes me a happy person.

As for the dinner, although the food was good but I think the hotel staff needs lots and lots more improvement. The floor manager did not manage timing properly and dinner only started at 8.30pm!!! I was also not used to not being cued for the very first dish. Usually, there will be the wait staff marching in to a grand piece of music. This time around, everything was quite haphazard, with wait staff just walking without music and two musicians preparing themselves on stage. We were quite unsure when to eat! Hahaha!!

That said, I had lots of eye candy that night as I had clean forgotten that my dear cousin is now an A&E doctor,while his wife is a paediatrician. The best surprise though, was when I saw a picture of myself, when I was young, lined up in a row, with some of my youngest cousins. I had forgotten how carefree we were and how, we did not know or care about the adults' affairs.

What a week (as I do not know how else to name this post)

It has been a crazy week so far, and I mean crazy. My cough would not go away and I talk with hardly any voice. Then last night, my car had the bad luck of going over this big metal plate with a nail and make me panic and call AA to replace a flat tyre.

It was something most unfortunate and I wished, one I would never encounter (having a flat tyre while driving, that is). It had to happen somehow. Just like the other time, a long time ago, when I said, I would never be caught dead without a foldable umbrella in China because their toilets have no doors. I was caught without a foldable umbrella when I went o China and I used toilets with no doors.

Well, all I can say is that I survived. I survived the door-less toilet and I survived the wait for the AA man to come change my tyres.

All these, and studies; rushing around like a mad dog and nursing my cough, I am glad that I passed my first module with not-so-bad results at all. Well, it is not a difficult module at all. After this module, the holiday ends and the (hopefully not) nightmare begins.

I wish the weekend will come soon! Going to my cousin's house again. This time, I am going for a sleepover. Haven't done that in years! The last sleepover...well, let's just say we had an adventure. Hahaha!

Sunday, September 14, 2008

More about wicker picnic baskets

Hehe... the magic of modern technology. I just put up a peronal message about drooling over wicker picnic baskets on MSN and one friend has decided to sell me hers!!!! So very happy! Here it is:



Ha! Ha! recognise the fella in the background? He was the model for the rainboots, Kingsley! Poor fella had just walked up eight floors when this picture was taken as the lift's fire alarm had gone off.